Since when is it snobby and elitist to spell correctly and use proper
grammar
Where do I state that it's snobby and elitist to spell correctly and
use proper grammar?
Where you said, "this kind of snobby elitist attitude really bothers
me".
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You do know you're misstating what I wrote, do you not?
No where in my post do I say that it's snobby and elitist to spell
correctly and use proper grammar. The statement you point to doesn't
indicate I said that either. Kindly go back and read through my post
once more. You're not understanding what I said.
I'm not misstating what you wrote at all. I'm quoting it exactly. You
stated that complaining about poor spelling and grammar in forum
posts shows a "snobby elitist attitude". You also said a woman who
works in a school and criticized another poster for the same thing
"made herself out to look like a small, mean-spirited person". These
are not taken out of context and they mean exactly what they say. By
implication, you're saying that anyone who complains about incorrect
spelling and grammar is snobby, elitist, and mean-spirited. You might
want to read your own posts.
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NOW you're properly quoting me! Yes, I do believe it shows a snobby
and elitist attitude when people complain about others not having
proper grammar skills. As you can see by the replies, even the
original poster is guilty of improper grammar, so these minor
infractions should be forgiven. To be so critical of others not only
seems snobby and elitist in my eyes, but often comes back to bite one
on the butt, as we've seen here.
As for why I feel this way, I've already given my reasons. Lucky for
us that we were from environments that put a high premium on
education and we were able to learn such things. That's not the case
with everyone, so the kinder thing is to give them a break. When I
was taught grammar I was also taught etiquette and compassion. I
don't think one trumps the other two.
This isn't what your initial question was, however. You initially
asked me, "Since when is it snobby and elitist to spell correctly and
use proper grammar?" I never said it was, I merely said that
criticizing others for not having proper grammar skills is snobby and
elitist. There's a difference.