Those look like their right up my ally. I'm looking at the P series
ones. I can't find info on the P series filter holder though. How
strong as these, do they break really easily? What about scratches?
For sun sets is a graduated or hard one better?
It depens upon the lens you're using whether to get the P size holder or the larger Lee holder. If you do anything with a ver wide lens (i.e. Nikon 12-24) you might opt for the Lee filter holder which takes 100mm filters versus 85mm P sized filters.
Beyond that, the P holder is a cheaply made piece of plastic, which has its good and bad points. Good - its cheap so so won't worry about losing it, its small so it packs well. Bad - its cheaply made and is held in place by friction between the holder and the adapter, where the Lee is held in place with a brass spring loaded catch which makes it easy to move with one hand (with the P holder you'll have to hold the lens with one hand and twist the holder with the other). Yes it sounds minor, but you will be surprised how much you learn to like being able to make one handed filter adjustments.
They don't break easily.
The do scratch easily (unless you buy glass).
The subject really doesn't dictate what transition type you buy, its the focal length of the lens. For what its worth, I use my hard grad 3 stop most often.
If money is an issue, then go with the COkin P holder and Lee, Hitech, or Singh Ray filters (of course, if you're going with Singh Ray, then money isn't an issue) - stay away from Cokin if you can.
One last thing, some cameras are more sensitive to infrared radiation than others. Infrared shows up as a magenta cast in an image. Doing long exposures with ND filters, even grads, can make this problem rear its ugly head which is impossible to get rid of in PP. You might consider getting an IR filter such as a Tiffen hot mirror, to combat this issue. My D100 and D70 are very susceptible to this type of problem, but some cameras like the D200 have a better IR cut filter which reduces the need for an IR cur filter.
This is a really annoying problem if you like to do long exposures when the sun is out. Its not too bad at twilight, but dusk, dawn and middle of the day can be issues.