It looks like I'm clear of this mess now! By the way, this is a long story, so don't start reading it unless it interests you
I'll tell everyone what happened in case anyone has to deal with a similiar circumstance.
Oddly enough the conning camera store was open today so I gave them a call. I started off really friendly, because after I had read through the bbb forms if I had wanted to file a complaint I noticed it was much better if I had the salesmans full name to fill out on the forms as well so that there is more accountability from top to bottom. So first of all, if you ever order anything off the internet, ask for a full name first, so you won't have to be sneaky like me in order to get it. Of course, before you do that, check their business with the bbb before you even call! Anyways, back to the story... I started off being really sweet, some small chat, where I had reminded him (peter) that he had told me that he had used his highly recommended 24-135 lens to do wedding photography and if he had a webpage to demonstrate his work. He told me that that was his side business to sales and that he did it through his brother's studio... then he asked me why I wanted to know, so I told him I have some friends planning a wedding and they were shopping around. I'm normally a very honest guy, but you have to fight fire with fire... and I guess I'm not completely lying, my sister is getting married, but I'll never recommend her to this guys brother. Sorry, I digressed again, back to the story... He accepted my bait and then told me that his brother was Scott and his number was 917-586-5523... Great, does he have a last name... Scott Handerson sp? he replied. I know that Peter probably was familiar with the bbb forms as well, so he was probably lying about the whole studio, but I felt good getting something out of him that might be the truth anyways. So. now that we were "friends" and I had some potential business for his part time studio work (in his mind anyways) I decided to start off lightly and see if he'd agree to let me out of this without fighting too much, so I told him that I couldn't afford the camera right now, so that I would have to cancel the order. He rambled on about how it was a great deal, etc etc, and after I became a bit more insistant and told him that I would have to hold off a couple months because of the cost, he put me on hold, very briefly, and then told me that he checked with his manager and they agreed that they could give me 10% off... which isn't hard to do when you create a package misrepresenting a 350$ lens at a $1,399 value! Of course I did not accept and decided to up the anti a bit. So I decided to add on another complaint and point out that I had found reviews for this apparently "new Sigma lens" that he had sold me on and that it reviewed very poorly. He tried telling me that it was a reiew for an older lens and theat this new release had a new chip to improve it, etc. So I offered to email him the url so that he could see the review for himself?
I was going to send him this link:
http://www.resellerratings.com/seller1805.html
if he had accepted my offer of this email because the very first entry is exactly the same scam that he pulled on me, but he refused to see the url and just told me that he already knew the site I was talking about... So I replied, oh maybe it's not the same site could I have the url for the site you think that I'm talking about so that I can see it as well in the event that it is different? Silence on his end... "Well, I already shipped it last friday" came out when he broke his silence. "Really? I thought that you told me last friday that you were going to ship it on monday, plus I called shortly after I made that order last friday to cancel it then, but for some reason you seemed to have closed early because the phones went to a message saying to call back in business hours? So it seemed like you closed right after you took my order?" I replied. "Yeah, well the shipping department stayed open, etc, etc..." he's got quite the mouth so I won't type everything he said. To cut it short I just told him that if it has shipped, I won't accept it and it will come back to them unopened. So he wasn't done, i guess he wanted to see how I would up the anti next, so he started to tell me that if I wanted to cancel the order that I would have to pay the shipping... Um no, I don't think I will pay the shipping. I have already called the credit card company and I Know I can dispute your charge easily because of your lens misrepresentation and I will not pay anything, but I would rather not wait a month to dispute the charge on my bill so lets just get this over with now ok peter? He started to kick up more fuss, so I decided to just throw in the big guns and go all in. "Peter, have you seen the bbb report for your company?" "Yes" he replied. So you know that your company has had 80 sales practice complaints and even points out the practice of bait and switch right in the report!" "I didn't do a bait and switch" he replied. "OK peter, I called you wanting a very specific lens and then you sold me on a lens which reviews at a value of 350 as if it was worth 1,399. What do you call that if it is not a bait and switch?" He put me on hold and then came back shortly and told me that the charges would be reversed on my credit card and promptly hung up..." OK, I thought..., when will that happen?
to be continued... (too many characters in my initial post)