New to the whole scene, need help

I'm STILL pondering about this whole thing, my friend that is ordering it for me has been quite patient haha.

The one thing i am going over in my mind is from my original post between a XTi/SD800/900. I have put it between the XTi and 800 due to the $100 difference not really worth it, plus no IS, and only thing it has going for it is 10MP, which the XTi has .

So it has come down to a bout, a bout of size and investment. With the SD800 i'm set. 400 bucks, already have the mem card. done.

XTi 750 (or 850 with lens) camera, with a long look ahead at the investment of lenses.

The last thing to ponder is. -- With the stock lens will I be able to get better pics than the SD800? (generally) .. and the answer is most likely yes.

Also , not as big of a deal, but compact cameras you can get away with more, can set to no noise, people don't know you are taking pictures, etc. I have come to the realization regardless I will want both eventually. If i get the small one to do with parties, and hanging out for now, i'll want a semi-professional camera. clarity is just better with dSLR

assume i would get an SLR could someone suggest a good

COMPACT FLASH CARD
CAMERA BAG
LCD COVER PROTECTOR

i think those are the only things i would need assuming i got an SLR right? im making final price comparisons and hopefully going to make a decision soon.

anyone?

I ordered the XTi today. got it discounted at 767 with the lens which i have heard isnt that great, but i figured since i am new to SLR before i invest in a few good lenses I should get used to the manual, and the feel and all that good stuff... def. a good deal though, i also got a CF Extreme III 2.0GB card for it though amazon for 80.00, i am gonna get a case soon, but that puts all that sub-1000 which is great!

can't wait to get it and start up. I told my friend I would take her engagement pics and then I have a party next satuday so , ill prob be playing around taking pictures like a mad dog. !