mike,
I use the photoflex "multi-clamp" lightstand adaptor to hold the umbrella (photoflex 45" convertible) and a mounting bar that I mount two nikon AS-10 hot-shoe adaptors on, with the SB800s mounted in the AS-10s, about 4 inches or so apart and firing straight forward into the center of the umbrella.
The mounting bar could be something like this:
http://www.berezin.com/3d/twinbar.htm or like this:
http://www.reallyrightstuff.com/mpr/index.html
to be honest, I have an old Kirk mounting plate for my 500mm lens that I pressed into service.
I've found that setting the SB800s on the 24mm zoom setting is sufficient to fill the 45" umbrella, with very little light spillover.
Using two SB800s firing into the umbrella also has the advantage that your range depicted on the SB800 LCD is fairly accurate. (You loose just over a stop of light by reflecting off the umbrella, so the second flash makes up for that stop, making your range calculations accurate again.)
As much as Nikon's CLS system has been touted, I have found through practical experience that I can't always count on it to work properly when shooting outdoors or into an umbrella. (Probably too much "stray light" to contend with.) Therefore, I find radio remotes much more trustworthy. Even something as simple as this cheap $25 radio remote from ebay:
http://cgi.ebay.com/Wireless-Digital-Radio-Slave-Flash-Trigger-16-Channels_W0QQitemZ280014030364QQihZ018QQcategoryZ30086QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem seems to give me much better results than relying on any of the Nikon flash-based methods of controlling remote flashes.
Given that I use the radio remote, and not CLS to control the flash, I'm obviously not using TTL on the remote flashes, but I haven't found this to be much of a disadvantage. In fact, I find that manually setting the flash output, and then making minor adjustments via my aperture (or ISO) settings can give me MUCH more consistent results than TTL and CLS. Once I get the flash exposure set the way I want it, I can freely move people in and out of the group poses without worring about a white dress or group of black tuxes overly influencing my meter results.
Hope this helps. Please let me know if you have any additional questions.
Keith
http://www.SpiritofPhotography.com