Tom Boucher
Senior Member
I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old, I'm 34 years old. I stand outside when they are on the playground 'in case' for hours watching them run around in circles.
My Mom didn't do that, she stayed inside and looked in on us every once in a while out the window. I'd be gone all day by the age of 6 or so, in creeks, walking through rain sewers, having all sorts of adventures.
Was one parenting style different than the other? Was one style wrong? Who knows. I talk to my wife about it all the time. Both of us did things like this. My wife had over 200 acres of timberland in Oregon to run around on and would have a lunch packed by her grandmother and off they went.
Why do I feel I need to do this?
News reporting styles have changed over the last 20 or so years I think. I've actually made a game of the alarmist attempt at ratings promos they do now between shows with 'news at 11' and it turns out to be some puff piece. But if you pay attention to just the 15 second spot they do you'd think someone is chopping kids heads off.
Should you be vigilant? Sure. Are we maybe a bit over the edge? I think so. As a parent do I fight the urge every day? yes, and then of course the one time I let my 2 year old run around the back of the house without me 2 steps behind him he climbs in a wading pool fully clothed carrying three DVDs he snagged while I was cleaning out the car...
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My Mom didn't do that, she stayed inside and looked in on us every once in a while out the window. I'd be gone all day by the age of 6 or so, in creeks, walking through rain sewers, having all sorts of adventures.
Was one parenting style different than the other? Was one style wrong? Who knows. I talk to my wife about it all the time. Both of us did things like this. My wife had over 200 acres of timberland in Oregon to run around on and would have a lunch packed by her grandmother and off they went.
Why do I feel I need to do this?
News reporting styles have changed over the last 20 or so years I think. I've actually made a game of the alarmist attempt at ratings promos they do now between shows with 'news at 11' and it turns out to be some puff piece. But if you pay attention to just the 15 second spot they do you'd think someone is chopping kids heads off.
Should you be vigilant? Sure. Are we maybe a bit over the edge? I think so. As a parent do I fight the urge every day? yes, and then of course the one time I let my 2 year old run around the back of the house without me 2 steps behind him he climbs in a wading pool fully clothed carrying three DVDs he snagged while I was cleaning out the car...
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http://public.fotki.com/trekkie