Lisa porn post - likely suspect

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Phil

Well,well. Threatening shouldn't be tolerated and good you did for bringing it up. I didn't read all the responses here but read enough to wonder were are all the people woh love his photography. I hope that some disagreement with you is still acceptable. Personaly I like Frances spirit maybe because he is so hot tempered maybe because he can express himself so well with three words and an image, maybe because he is so colorful and not like everyone else (me included).

As someone who painted nude models from the age of 15 and enjoy the beauty of the human body I see NOTHING WRONG in Frances bikini images. Most of them have good fundamentals of photography no matter if it is a Hwaiin dancer or a beach gower or just a group of palms. I think he is great and a great deal of injustice is happening here as well as a lot of hypocracy.

It is true that being as hot tempered as he is sometime he does foolish things (threatening) but lets keep thing in proportion, otherwise we will have to go against everyone whose passion gets him a bit too far. Lets appreciate what there is to appreciate and not start a witch haunt as I read in the first dozen of posts in this thread.

As far as what is permited and what is not, it is your board and you can impose your moral values. So far you did right for not censoring his photographic work. If your advertizers or yourself don't like photographic art that express the beauty and poetry of the femail body is too bad but I doubt this is the case. Perhaps it should be clearer stated what is the line. I think nudity by itself shouldn't be the line but erotic gestures or implied erotics should. Difficult to define, I know but so much wrong have happen in the world because of too puritan attitude that it is important to drow a liberal (maybe not too liberal) line. I was under the impression that this was your attitude too. your last comments made me doubt that and made me sad too.

Ruvy
 
About the only thing you said that made sense, Ruvy, is that you didn't read all the posts. Don't get me wrong... God I make plenty of mistakes in the area of not checking out things before I weigh in. This wasn't about some "artistic expression", unless your idea of it is what was posted by the man. If that be the case, then I'm wasting my time typing this to you in the first place.
Well,well. Threatening shouldn't be tolerated and good you did for
bringing it up. I didn't read all the responses here but read
enough to wonder were are all the people woh love his photography.
I hope that some disagreement with you is still acceptable.
Personaly I like Frances spirit maybe because he is so hot tempered
maybe because he can express himself so well with three words and
an image, maybe because he is so colorful and not like everyone
else (me included).
As someone who painted nude models from the age of 15 and enjoy the
beauty of the human body I see NOTHING WRONG in Frances bikini
images. Most of them have good fundamentals of photography no
matter if it is a Hwaiin dancer or a beach gower or just a group of
palms. I think he is great and a great deal of injustice is
happening here as well as a lot of hypocracy.
It is true that being as hot tempered as he is sometime he does
foolish things (threatening) but lets keep thing in proportion,
otherwise we will have to go against everyone whose passion gets
him a bit too far. Lets appreciate what there is to appreciate and
not start a witch haunt as I read in the first dozen of posts in
this thread.
As far as what is permited and what is not, it is your board and
you can impose your moral values. So far you did right for not
censoring his photographic work. If your advertizers or yourself
don't like photographic art that express the beauty and poetry of
the femail body is too bad but I doubt this is the case. Perhaps it
should be clearer stated what is the line. I think nudity by itself
shouldn't be the line but erotic gestures or implied erotics
should. Difficult to define, I know but so much wrong have happen
in the world because of too puritan attitude that it is important
to drow a liberal (maybe not too liberal) line. I was under the
impression that this was your attitude too. your last comments made
me doubt that and made me sad too.

Ruvy
 
Hi, all: Just a thought....

a) I agree that Phil has every right to maintain this site according to the guidelines set by him. Whoever wishes to participate in this forum have to follow these guidelines. Frances shouldn't send out any threatening email to Phil - no excuse...it is just unacceptable.

b) It is seriously wrong to post a link to an xxx site.

c) Frances has been posting females in bikini for some time. Those who were not comfortable with his postings then why kept quiet? You made a mistake by not letting Frances know about your feeling? Don't forget: silence means consent.

d) Females in bikini at the beach vs on the internet - Since both are for public viewing (no restriction to the minors), is there any difference?

sam
 
Hi, all: Just a thought....

a) I agree that Phil has every right to maintain this site
according to the guidelines set by him. Whoever wishes to
participate in this forum have to follow these guidelines. Frances
shouldn't send out any threatening email to Phil - no excuse...it
is just unacceptable.

b) It is seriously wrong to post a link to an xxx site.

c) Frances has been posting females in bikini for some time.
Those who were not comfortable with his postings then why kept
quiet? You made a mistake by not letting Frances know about your
feeling? Don't forget: silence means consent.

d) Females in bikini at the beach vs on the internet - Since both
are for public viewing (no restriction to the minors), is there any
difference?

sam
oops, another point:

If Frances agrees to give an undertaking to Phil that in the future he would follow the guidelines and apologize to Phil for what he did, personally I feel he should be given another chance to participate in this forum...

sam
 
c) Frances has been posting females in bikini for some time.
Those who were not comfortable with his postings then why kept
quiet? You made a mistake by not letting Frances know about your
feeling? Don't forget: silence means consent.
Frances thrives off the attention. Had everyone complained to
him it wouldn't have stopped him. I think silence was the
best thing to do.

Bob Graham
 
Jarrel

You may be wasting your time and may be I do too but to set the record streight I didn't see the image. Even if it was pure phornography (I doubt it was) this thread is too vendictive of a member that I like his work and his passion. He might have been wrong but this thread is a Lynch trial orchestrated by Phil that goes personal way beyond the issue itself. As much as I owe Phil a lot of knowledge and enjoyable hours on this board, I do critisize him for this thread. IMHO he should have stopped posting after exposing the thread. He is too powerful here to get in an open personal fight and fuele this any further. Frances passion carried him too far, if this is the case, there are more human ways to get a person back to his bounds.

As far as my wrinting making sense to you or not. I am not an American and English is not my language. Enjy what ever you could understand that did make sense to you. All I write makes perfect sense to me.

Ruvy
Well,well. Threatening shouldn't be tolerated and good you did for
bringing it up. I didn't read all the responses here but read
enough to wonder were are all the people woh love his photography.
I hope that some disagreement with you is still acceptable.
Personaly I like Frances spirit maybe because he is so hot tempered
maybe because he can express himself so well with three words and
an image, maybe because he is so colorful and not like everyone
else (me included).
As someone who painted nude models from the age of 15 and enjoy the
beauty of the human body I see NOTHING WRONG in Frances bikini
images. Most of them have good fundamentals of photography no
matter if it is a Hwaiin dancer or a beach gower or just a group of
palms. I think he is great and a great deal of injustice is
happening here as well as a lot of hypocracy.
It is true that being as hot tempered as he is sometime he does
foolish things (threatening) but lets keep thing in proportion,
otherwise we will have to go against everyone whose passion gets
him a bit too far. Lets appreciate what there is to appreciate and
not start a witch haunt as I read in the first dozen of posts in
this thread.
As far as what is permited and what is not, it is your board and
you can impose your moral values. So far you did right for not
censoring his photographic work. If your advertizers or yourself
don't like photographic art that express the beauty and poetry of
the femail body is too bad but I doubt this is the case. Perhaps it
should be clearer stated what is the line. I think nudity by itself
shouldn't be the line but erotic gestures or implied erotics
should. Difficult to define, I know but so much wrong have happen
in the world because of too puritan attitude that it is important
to drow a liberal (maybe not too liberal) line. I was under the
impression that this was your attitude too. your last comments made
me doubt that and made me sad too.

Ruvy
 
oops, another point:

If Frances agrees to give an undertaking to Phil that in the future
he would follow the guidelines and apologize to Phil for what he
did, personally I feel he should be given another chance to
participate in this forum...

sam
Bob Graham Wrote:

He has been given many chances. He won't change.
And I'm pretty sure he won't apologize to Phil. Frances
enjoys pestering him.
 
My take is this, Phil why do you even bother to let us know that you blocked someone? In my opinion you don't have to. It is your site we are Guests that come here to learn, explore, talk, and enjoy the comunity.

You are our mayor if some one pisses you off can them no explanation needed. "you the Man" remember that and act acordingly.
Good job.
J.Z
 
Hi, Ruvy: Please don't get upset here. This is an open forum for discussion and each one of us is entitled to his/her personal opinion. One more point, I admire your English...it is perfect.

sam
Jarrel

You may be wasting your time and may be I do too but to set the
record streight I didn't see the image. Even if it was pure
phornography (I doubt it was) this thread is too vendictive of a
member that I like his work and his passion. He might have been
wrong but this thread is a Lynch trial orchestrated by Phil that
goes personal way beyond the issue itself. As much as I owe Phil a
lot of knowledge and enjoyable hours on this board, I do critisize
him for this thread. IMHO he should have stopped posting after
exposing the thread. He is too powerful here to get in an open
personal fight and fuele this any further. Frances passion carried
him too far, if this is the case, there are more human ways to get
a person back to his bounds.

As far as my wrinting making sense to you or not. I am not an
American and English is not my language. Enjy what ever you could
understand that did make sense to you. All I write makes perfect
sense to me.

Ruvy
 
Jonathon,

Perhaps it was because of the obscene post. As the sysop he has to feel responsible for what appears on his site. I know that if one of my colleagues had seen that (and five of my programmers are women) it would have been most awkward and embarassing.
Rich
My take is this, Phil why do you even bother to let us know that
you blocked someone? In my opinion you don't have to. It is your
site we are Guests that come here to learn, explore, talk, and
enjoy the comunity.
You are our mayor if some one pisses you off can them no
explanation needed. "you the Man" remember that and act acordingly.
Good job.
J.Z
 
Jarrel

You may be wasting your time and may be I do too but to set the
record streight I didn't see the image. Even if it was pure
phornography (I doubt it was)
You're wrong there Ruvy. It was images of a very well endowed black man recieving oral sex from a white women. Bill Clinton may not call that sex, but I certainly do.
 
Bikini shots.... hmmm. I like them! There's nothing in the world more beautiful, to me, than the female form. But. There is a world of difference between what was posted by Frances this morning and a beautiful woman lying on a beach in a bikini.
1. I don't know Frances
2. I really don't know any of you that well
3. I have to go by the work you post and what and how you say it.

4. There have been some who frequent the forums here that have objected openly about some of Frances's pictures.
5. Once or twice, even I thought he was skirting close to the edge.
6. Phil owns the place and sets the rules.

7. Pornorgraphic material has it's place, and I personally don't think it's here.
8. I did not see the photos, but had them described in detail to me.

9. Post them on another web site that is not likely to be viewed by children leaning over their fathers or mothers shoulder, and I might go see them for myself. But, I don't think so.

10. I've always found it strange that when people don't say anything about things they feel are wrong, they're sticking their heads in the sand, not standing up. And, when they do.... they're on a witch hunt. The people that say that are usually experts at the art of tranference of guilt.

11. I, for one, don't care if Frances is allowed to come back or not. As I said, I don't know the man. But..... I know of him.
I know. Hopefully this is the last you'll hear from me on the matter.

Listen, it all boils down to one thing. #6 up there. All else is a moot point. You can argue about it til the cows come home, but if you don't like #6, you're free to open your own site and post whatever the hell you want.

Jarrell
oops, another point:

If Frances agrees to give an undertaking to Phil that in the future
he would follow the guidelines and apologize to Phil for what he
did, personally I feel he should be given another chance to
participate in this forum...

sam
Bob Graham Wrote:

He has been given many chances. He won't change.
And I'm pretty sure he won't apologize to Phil. Frances
enjoys pestering him.
 
John

If this was the case censoring it might have been the right thing to do but this got carried too far into a personal fude. Yes i agree with the need to maintain some boundaries for freedom of expression, mine may be more permisive than other but this is not the issue. The issue is outcasting a person (rather than his act) and the roll of the moderator in this board in doing so. Most of the images Phil brought as an example for Frances distast were perfectly fine and often I have shared them with my wife. While I agree that a moderator should set up limits I think he should set some limits to himself too. My experience was that he always does - this publicly presented fude between him and Frances was uneven and wrong. While I do like Frances a great deal I don't think every word he rights is acceptable to all - some are offensive. I am not his teacher and I preffer to see the warm passion behind it. I know some people were offended by him and I don't like that either.

Ruvy
Jarrel

You may be wasting your time and may be I do too but to set the
record streight I didn't see the image. Even if it was pure
phornography (I doubt it was)
You're wrong there Ruvy. It was images of a very well endowed
black man recieving oral sex from a white women. Bill Clinton may
not call that sex, but I certainly do.
 
John

If this was the case censoring it might have been the right thing
to do but this got carried too far into a personal fude.
Ruvy,

I never had a problem with Frances pics or his posts. I didn't object to the bikini shots myself, my feeling there is that if someone goes to the beach half naked in a thong bikini, they are fair game for any photographer that comes along.

That's not the point however. The point is, Phil owns this site & he sets the rules however he wants. He asked Frances to stop posting those kind of pics & he has every right to do so. If people don't want to follow Phil's rules, they should post somewhere else, period.
 
John

If this was the case censoring it might have been the right thing
to do but this got carried too far into a personal fude.
Ruvy, read now carefully: Frances posted direct links to a porno site. A PORNO SITE. Apparently this wasn't even his "work"! OK, got that? Now, in addition to that, Frances threatened Phil. Yes, Ruvy, HE THREATENED PHIL.
Yes i agree with the need to maintain some boundaries for freedom of
expression,
And Phil is attempting to do just that. If recieving threats wouldn't ruffle your feathers, then what would?
The issue is outcasting a person (rather than his act)
Oh for God's sake Ruvy! You have to hold a person accountable for their actions! What are you supposed to do? Maybe take Frances' porno trash and threat, print it out on paper, put it in a little box and say, "You've been bad. You need to stay off the DP forum. Bad porno! Bad threat!" Is that your idea how to deal with such behaviour? Tell me Ruvy, when a person shoots and kills another person, do you blame the gun? Bad gun! We must separate the act from the person, right?
and the roll of the moderator in this board in doing so. Most of
the images Phil brought as an example for Frances distast were
perfectly fine and often I have shared them with my wife. While I
agree that a moderator should set up limits I think he should set
some limits to himself too. My experience was that he always does -
this publicly presented fude between him and Frances was uneven and
wrong.
Phil is protecting his investment and reputation, while Frances was trying to ruin it. Can't you understand it? Philis not the problem here, Ruvy. Anyone who doesn't want to be here is free to leave and start their own forum.

Sorry to lay into you like this Ruvy. You do have good English, but your moral character leaves much to be desired.

markE
 
I wouldn't want it of my wife or
16 year old niece

Neither would I, but I guess if my wife was lying on the beach in a
string bikini she would certainly be fair game for photographers.

I'm not trying to be argumentative here at all by the way Phil.
It's your site, you do a great job, & are certainly within your
rights to enforce any rules you wish.
I have to dissagree.

Of course if you're lying on the beach in a bikini you should be aware that people that are there will look at you. But you've certainly not signed up for being the subject of someone's online gallery! So i don't know what you mean by fair game ? Are we as photgraphers now predators or what did you mean ?

In my opinion it is just common courtesy not to take pictures of people lying halfnaked on the beach. And if you did do this to my girlfrind i'd consider your camera fair game and maybe test if it floats !

cj
 
Dear MarkE

I am a bit overwhelmed with your morals and wish mine were just as high as yours. Will be even happy with half as much. Your tone of speach (pritch) is even more impressive. You must be a very important person - a leader of sorts, a pillar of your community. You must be very confident in your way to dare writing like that.

Though I never use porno ( most I have seen was pleasing to my eyes but I can imagine also a nice one too). Because I don't consume it, porno is not a big issue for me as it may be for other here. On the other hand people, be it Phil or Frances or any other human being are very important to me, and despite my infirior moral standards i feel that there is justice and it is not all in one side. (you have easier time with it).

I see the wrong doing of both Frances and Phil. Since our world is full with people that like rules and other that are challanged by them, we, as a society have to give as much slack as possible to all as long as they are not threateniing our lives and the ways we want to handle them. This is something more difficult to accept for prichers with your absolute truth. It is called humanizm - looking at truth from different perspectives.

Frnaces was wrong (do you get it Mark? wrong read again in all my posts since I have heard about the porno issue) should I repeat it mark? just for your moral.. Mark?) and so are you. To say that Frances wanted to destroy/ruin Phils board is one of the most rediculous things I have read here. Frances live and thrives in this board, he is one of the most active participants. Where do you get your ideas? (Mark!). He might have gotten too far out and Phil is absolutely right, (and so are all his defenders like yourself) for trying to set the limits and to enforce them. I didn't argue against that.

All that was said was: 1. In my opinion (do you mind it Mark?) Phil was wrong for the way he had handled it. If Frances was insulted by it he might acted out of anger and done more things he shouldn't have at the first place. 2. I was amazed that all the people who appreciated and complemented Frances for all his great shots have disappeared and everyone was too fast to hit on him. I am sure he enjoys the attention but what about commradery - or is it just hypocracy? (does it bare any moral value in your eyes? mark)

I like this board and participate in it when I can afford the time. It is a great one. The owner and creator of this board do not need my recomendation. I would have never been able to handle something like that and keep it in such high standards as Phil does. If it was possible to isolate this case alone me being Phil, I would have handled it by e-mail and stop my posting here after I have made the issue known (if I got to the pppoint of no other choise). I would have not carried on my participation in the discussion here. To my eyes it is more respected/respecting way to do it.

Ruvy
John

If this was the case censoring it might have been the right thing
to do but this got carried too far into a personal fude.
Ruvy, read now carefully: Frances posted direct links to a porno
site. A PORNO SITE. Apparently this wasn't even his "work"! OK, got
that? Now, in addition to that, Frances threatened Phil. Yes, Ruvy,
HE THREATENED PHIL.
Yes i agree with the need to maintain some boundaries for freedom of
expression,
And Phil is attempting to do just that. If recieving threats
wouldn't ruffle your feathers, then what would?
The issue is outcasting a person (rather than his act)
Oh for God's sake Ruvy! You have to hold a person accountable for
their actions! What are you supposed to do? Maybe take Frances'
porno trash and threat, print it out on paper, put it in a little
box and say, "You've been bad. You need to stay off the DP forum.
Bad porno! Bad threat!" Is that your idea how to deal with such
behaviour? Tell me Ruvy, when a person shoots and kills another
person, do you blame the gun? Bad gun! We must separate the act
from the person, right?
and the roll of the moderator in this board in doing so. Most of
the images Phil brought as an example for Frances distast were
perfectly fine and often I have shared them with my wife. While I
agree that a moderator should set up limits I think he should set
some limits to himself too. My experience was that he always does -
this publicly presented fude between him and Frances was uneven and
wrong.
Phil is protecting his investment and reputation, while Frances was
trying to ruin it. Can't you understand it? Philis not the problem
here, Ruvy. Anyone who doesn't want to be here is free to leave and
start their own forum.

Sorry to lay into you like this Ruvy. You do have good English, but
your moral character leaves much to be desired.

markE
 
Cj

This is interesting issue. In part I agree with you in other I feel differently

Agree: should we post pictures of people, theoretically for the whole world to see without their concent. I once took a picture of a contractor who worked with me because I thought he had the most amazing eyes and felt very bad for not consulting him first - was very happy when people stop responding to this post. So the issue is general and I am not sure where to set a line. Most journallist shoot peple all the time and put them as subject or background in the news paper. Is itright or wrong?

Disagree: How different is a women or man in their bading suits than other people. If we accept the rule that people out oftheir house have in a way given up their privacy (everyone can see them). I don't understand why do the amount of clothing makes any difference as long as a person feels comfortable with what they expose in public.

The only way I will act as you have suggested is if my girlfriend says don't take a picture of her or if the photographer gets too close to make her feel uncomfortable..
I wouldn't want it of my wife or
16 year old niece

Neither would I, but I guess if my wife was lying on the beach in a
string bikini she would certainly be fair game for photographers.

I'm not trying to be argumentative here at all by the way Phil.
It's your site, you do a great job, & are certainly within your
rights to enforce any rules you wish.
I have to dissagree.
Of course if you're lying on the beach in a bikini you should be
aware that people that are there will look at you. But you've
certainly not signed up for being the subject of someone's online
gallery! So i don't know what you mean by fair game ? Are we as
photgraphers now predators or what did you mean ?

In my opinion it is just common courtesy not to take pictures of
people lying halfnaked on the beach. And if you did do this to my
girlfrind i'd consider your camera fair game and maybe test if it
floats !

cj
 
Ruvy, I'm going to type this very slowly, y o u j u s t d o n' t g e t i t,

d o y o u? Many people here appreciated Frances' photographic skills, and told him so. Today he posted some pretty disgusting photos on this, for all intents and purposes, a "G" rated site. Small kids look on with their parents. If MarkE's statements struck you as too "morally heavy", well.... tough. Oh why am I even bothering! You either don't get it or don't want to. You sound like a reasonably intelligent person so it evidently isn't the former, but the latter. I personally don't know Frances, but he went way overboard today.

Jarrell
I am a bit overwhelmed with your morals and wish mine were just as
high as yours. Will be even happy with half as much. Your tone of
speach (pritch) is even more impressive. You must be a very
important person - a leader of sorts, a pillar of your community.
You must be very confident in your way to dare writing like that.
Though I never use porno ( most I have seen was pleasing to my eyes
but I can imagine also a nice one too). Because I don't consume it,
porno is not a big issue for me as it may be for other here. On the
other hand people, be it Phil or Frances or any other human being
are very important to me, and despite my infirior moral standards i
feel that there is justice and it is not all in one side. (you have
easier time with it).
I see the wrong doing of both Frances and Phil. Since our world is
full with people that like rules and other that are challanged by
them, we, as a society have to give as much slack as possible to
all as long as they are not threateniing our lives and the ways we
want to handle them. This is something more difficult to accept for
prichers with your absolute truth. It is called humanizm - looking
at truth from different perspectives.
Frnaces was wrong (do you get it Mark? wrong read again in all my
posts since I have heard about the porno issue) should I repeat it
mark? just for your moral.. Mark?) and so are you. To say that
Frances wanted to destroy/ruin Phils board is one of the most
rediculous things I have read here. Frances live and thrives in
this board, he is one of the most active participants. Where do you
get your ideas? (Mark!). He might have gotten too far out and Phil
is absolutely right, (and so are all his defenders like yourself)
for trying to set the limits and to enforce them. I didn't argue
against that.
All that was said was: 1. In my opinion (do you mind it Mark?) Phil
was wrong for the way he had handled it. If Frances was insulted by
it he might acted out of anger and done more things he shouldn't
have at the first place. 2. I was amazed that all the people who
appreciated and complemented Frances for all his great shots have
disappeared and everyone was too fast to hit on him. I am sure he
enjoys the attention but what about commradery - or is it just
hypocracy? (does it bare any moral value in your eyes? mark)

I like this board and participate in it when I can afford the time.
It is a great one. The owner and creator of this board do not need
my recomendation. I would have never been able to handle something
like that and keep it in such high standards as Phil does. If it
was possible to isolate this case alone me being Phil, I would have
handled it by e-mail and stop my posting here after I have made the
issue known (if I got to the pppoint of no other choise). I would
have not carried on my participation in the discussion here. To my
eyes it is more respected/respecting way to do it.

Ruvy
John

If this was the case censoring it might have been the right thing
to do but this got carried too far into a personal fude.
Ruvy, read now carefully: Frances posted direct links to a porno
site. A PORNO SITE. Apparently this wasn't even his "work"! OK, got
that? Now, in addition to that, Frances threatened Phil. Yes, Ruvy,
HE THREATENED PHIL.
Yes i agree with the need to maintain some boundaries for freedom of
expression,
And Phil is attempting to do just that. If recieving threats
wouldn't ruffle your feathers, then what would?
The issue is outcasting a person (rather than his act)
Oh for God's sake Ruvy! You have to hold a person accountable for
their actions! What are you supposed to do? Maybe take Frances'
porno trash and threat, print it out on paper, put it in a little
box and say, "You've been bad. You need to stay off the DP forum.
Bad porno! Bad threat!" Is that your idea how to deal with such
behaviour? Tell me Ruvy, when a person shoots and kills another
person, do you blame the gun? Bad gun! We must separate the act
from the person, right?
and the roll of the moderator in this board in doing so. Most of
the images Phil brought as an example for Frances distast were
perfectly fine and often I have shared them with my wife. While I
agree that a moderator should set up limits I think he should set
some limits to himself too. My experience was that he always does -
this publicly presented fude between him and Frances was uneven and
wrong.
Phil is protecting his investment and reputation, while Frances was
trying to ruin it. Can't you understand it? Philis not the problem
here, Ruvy. Anyone who doesn't want to be here is free to leave and
start their own forum.

Sorry to lay into you like this Ruvy. You do have good English, but
your moral character leaves much to be desired.

markE
 
Dear MarkE

I am a bit overwhelmed with your morals and wish mine were just as
high as yours. Will be even happy with half as much. Your tone of
speach (pritch) is even more impressive. You must be a very
important person - a leader of sorts, a pillar of your community.
You must be very confident in your way to dare writing like that.
Thank you.
Though I never use porno ( most I have seen was pleasing to my eyes
but I can imagine also a nice one too). Because I don't consume it,
porno is not a big issue for me as it may be for other here.
I wasn't in New York on September 11th, but it is still an issue for me. Porn is not a constant in my life either, but it can still be an issue when it affects the environment of the "community". And I believe that is why many have objected to the porn.

On the
other hand people, be it Phil or Frances or any other human being
are very important to me, and despite my infirior moral standards i
feel that there is justice and it is not all in one side. (you have
easier time with it).
I don't quite understand what you mean here.
I see the wrong doing of both Frances and Phil. Since our world is
full with people that like rules and other that are challanged by
them, we, as a society have to give as much slack as possible to
all as long as they are not threateniing our lives and the ways we
want to handle them.
Yes, I agree. And Frances' behaviour IS affecting the way we (Phil AND the majority of forum members) want to handle it.

This is something more difficult to accept for
prichers with your absolute truth. It is called humanizm - looking
at truth from different perspectives.
Take it easy, Ruvy. I don't think I suggested a linching! But I don't think a simple ban from the forum would ruin the poor guy's life.
Frnaces was wrong (do you get it Mark? wrong read again in all my
posts since I have heard about the porno issue) should I repeat it
mark? just for your moral.. Mark?)
OK, I guess you said it better this time! ;)

and so are you. To say that
Frances wanted to destroy/ruin Phils board is one of the most
rediculous things I have read here.
Oh yes, how silly of me! Frances is trying to help Phil, right? It must all be a publicity stunt to draw more viewers! How could I have missed that?!

Frances live and thrives in
this board, he is one of the most active participants.
I have appreciated a lot of Frances' work. But as others here have stated, sometimes he has not been a very easy member for Phil to deal with. And even though I can admire his photos, I don't believe I've actually learned anything from him (although the island pics make me homesick for Moorea!)
Where do you
get your ideas?
What are you referring to?

(Mark!). He might have gotten too far out and Phil
is absolutely right, (and so are all his defenders like yourself)
for trying to set the limits and to enforce them. I didn't argue
against that.
All that was said was: 1. In my opinion (do you mind it Mark?)Phil
was wrong for the way he had handled it. If Frances was insulted by
it he might
"might"? I thought you agreed the porno was wrong. Do you think Frances' threat "might" be another one of those things he shouldn't have done?

acted out of anger and done more things he shouldn't
have at the first place. 2. I was amazed that all the people who
appreciated and complemented Frances for all his great shots have
disappeared and everyone was too fast to hit on him.
Yeah, isn't it funny how people disappear when they are thrown a bunch of sick porno? People sure are funny that way, aren't they?

I am sure he
enjoys the attention but what about commradery - or is it just
hypocracy? (does it bare any moral value in your eyes? mark)
I guess we just have different definitions of commradry and hipocracy. If a friend of mine starts to use disrespectful behaviour towards me (after I repeatedly asked him to stop), I would break up the relationship. And this is parallel to what Frances did to Phil. I would see nothing wrong with Phil "banning" Frances from the forum. Although I see he's still around, slipping in another childish remark in one (uncreative) form or another.
I like this board and participate in it when I can afford the time.
It is a great one. The owner and creator of this board do not need
my recomendation. I would have never been able to handle something
like that and keep it in such high standards as Phil does. If it
was possible to isolate this case alone me being Phil, I would have
handled it by e-mail and stop my posting here after I have made the
issue known (if I got to the pppoint of no other choise). I would
have not carried on my participation in the discussion here. To my
eyes it is more respected/respecting way to do it.
Oh, yes. Frances is QUITE the victim here, isn't he? LOL!!!

markE

PS Thank you, Jarrell.
 

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