picture my kids were in. Anything that even remotely made me
uncomfortable and I would be confronting the photographer. A
parent's JOB is to make sure their child is safe, if that means
making life a little harder for someone taking pictures, I'm sorry,
but that is just too bad, kids should come first!
Ok, but you still haven't explained how preventing some guy from taking pictures of your kids in public "makes them safe".
I just think this is such a ridiculous, unnecessary stance on this issue. I am willing to bet you that way more kids are claimed every year by backyard swimming pools than photons bouncing off of them and winding up in some camera.
I just don't see the connection. Do you even see a connection?
The thing with the perverts taking your child's picture is, they
tend to be meticulous people. They will know where they saw your
child and when they took the picture. If you have a routine you
follow of going to the park every Thursday or whatever...if they
want, they can figure out your routine quite easily. Then, heaven
forbid you turn your back or have to use the port-a-poty some day
and leave your kid outside on a day the pervert has gotten tired of
just taking pictures.
Yes, clearly this situation could only happen in the presence of a pervert
with a camera . If we outlaw cameras, then all of this pervert stuff will go away, right?
Do me a favor and recast your argument so that it periodically makes contact with reality. If you do this, I will actually understand your concerns and we can have a discussion.
Listen, perverts don't lurk around parks where parents take their kids. Perverts lurk around areas where children are without their parents to protect them. Like school bus stops. Like church confessionals. Like Neverland Ranch.
If you are even
capable of walking up to a photographer who's taking pictures of your kids in public, then you should probably allow for the possibility that this is either: (1) just a photographer, or (2) like, the worst pervert EVER.
Don't knock the parents for trying to prevent something that may or
may not happen, it is a parents' job to think of any and all
possibility for harm. I never bothered to bolt my bookshelves or
dressers to the wall till I had kids. Never worried about whether
I had a toxic plant in my yard till I had kids. Never thought
about a LOT of things till after I had children.
Let me tell you a little story. When I was young I had a friend whose mom worried and worried about him. She child-proofed her entire house, she watched him like a hawk when she took him to the park, she hassled people that got too close to him, and she picked him up from school because she didn't want him to ride the bus or be alone at bus stops. She worried so much that her face got wrinkled and ugly and she smelled bad. She protected her kid from every single thing she imagined could cause him harm. And then, one day in my US History class, he got stung by a bee and had an allergic reaction and died.
After that, she gave up worrying altogether about his newborn little brother. She let him do whatever he wanted, took long baths while he played with knives on the kitchen floor, and even let him ride the bus. She married the local park-lurking pervert with a camera and let him raise the kid. Now the younger brother is a millionaire and retired at the age of 25. He is married and has two kids, one of which he used to keep locked in the basement for his own protection and the other of which he doesn't care about at all. (I say "used to" keep locked in the basement because they had a flood and little Bobby couldn't make it out in time.)
I think we can all learn something from this story. We can learn that crazy ramblings that have no connection to reality and don't actually happen should not impact how we live our lives.