Hi, Francesco,
RAFCamera makes not just a 40.5mm to 49mm adapter, but also a 34mm to 49mm adapter. My Steritar has 34mm threads, so I bought the second. But of course there aren't many Leica lenses with 49 filter threads (there's the APO-Telyt 135, but that's not suitable for stereo). So you could get a 39-49 or 46-49 step-up ring, which allows attaching a Summilux or Summicron.
The problem is that the RAF adapter is quite thick and puts the Steritar far from the camera body, which introduces several optical problems, and the step-up rings push it still farther. (Also, its internal threads are brass, which causes internal reflections.)
A better solution, I found, is to attach a 43mm-34mm step-down ring to the Steritar (it threads on smoothly and securely, even though the pitch is slightly different). I then attach my Zeiss Biogon 35mm f/2 -- an excellent lens, equal in optical and mechanical quality but cheaper than a Leica.
Alternatively, you could attach a 43-46 or 43-39 step-up/down ring, though again, that pushes the Steritar a bit farther from the camera.
The disadvantage of the step-down ring solution is that the Steritar does not screw down to a horizontal position, so you have to screw it in only until it is horizontal. It won't fall off, but will have some rotational freedom, so you have to monitor the orientation in the viewfinder to keep the images horizontally aligned. It's one more thing to keep track of while shooting, but I found it worked. Perhaps if you wrap some teflon tape around the threads there would be more friction and the Steritar would not get nudged out of the horizontal orientation. (This is an advantage of the RAF adapter - there are screws to adjust horizontal alignment.)
Two more tips from my experience:
1. The internal threads of the Steritar are silver, which causes internal reflections. I blackened them with a fine black Sharpie and got better results. Matte black paint would be even better but I did not want to take the chance of dripping it onto the prisms!
2. The two half-images from the Steritar show considerable horizontal keystoning. Fortunately, Stereo Photo Maker Pro (I assume you use this program) corrects for it automatically. This is also a good reason to use a 35mm lens rather than a 50mm lens with the Steritar (it's officially designed for a 45mm). The 35 accommodates 100% of the field of view of the Steritar, and then Stereo Photo Maker Pro crops out the thin black trapezoidal surround, whereas a 50mm crops out a lot more of the images.
Good luck with it!