OK, let's address this this ill-conceived notion here....
the ill conceived notion is that the desktop in question is the property of MS.
How is it Microsoft's fault that a user wants to hold onto a 10-year old piece of hardware or software that the vendor themselves no longer support? Is Microsoft supposed to suddenly make a dead product by a third-party vendor come alive again because "hey, it's on our OS so we need to make it work"? C'mon man.
If MS is going to impose a forced patching policy, and a rather obnoxious trick you into upgrading to 10 program, then yes, they assumed the responsibility for supporting the hardware, no matter how old.
I know there's a lot of Microsoft hatred out there but don't let it turn into silly blind rage.
Rage? Let's not be drama queens about it.
Oh, and for the record updates can be delayed if one takes the time to learn how. That would be an example of an "active" endeavor. The passive one just let's things go by as is and then complains.
MS changed the status quo. The prior methods were the proper ones.
'We had to kill the desktop in order to save it' didn't work in Vietnam, why should it here?
When you take power and control from the user, you take ownership and responsibility. Don't get to have your cake and eat it too.
'Sorry'