I stand corrected, I thought he said he was in a nursing home, he said he was in a retirement community. There is a great variety of ranges in health at that age (look at John McCain) Some at 76 are in great shape, having incorrectly remembered what he said (nursing home vs. retirement community and mention of Dr. appointments) I assumed he may have been a little closer to the other end of the spectrum. I meant no disrespect to the guy, it was just burning me a little that he was getting so much hateful cr@p here as if it's somehow inconceivable that a Mac Genius could have been anything less than helpful to him.
Even in great mental and physical shape, technology can be daunting enough for anyone, let alone for those who are not immersed in the latest of it all day long, especially since Apple is now heavy in the, "It just works" campaign. My dad (75) is great with his computer, in relatively good health, and probably mentally sharper than I am, but when he switched from dial up and OS 9, to cable and OS 10 and an iMac he struggled a bit. The cable company that was his provider had no clue how to set up mail on a Mac and left him to his own devices. He hired a 3rd party that made house calls to help him out. All the guy did was tell him not to use the mail box he is paying for whether he uses it or not, and set him up with a Yahoo account (which my dad already knew how to do). He charged him the full price for an hour or two of a house call and basically did nothing for him he didn't already know how to do himself. Even though my father is a very savy guy, the tech simply took advantage of him and did the bare minimum that was easiest for himself, rather than doing what my father was paying for because the guy figured my father wouldn't no the difference, which he did. That wasn't an isolated experience, he's gotten the same treatment from other techs he's had out for other things.
Driving distances in a metro area when you feel a little iffy about can be a bit scary, even if you're fit and sharp. Although the Apple store may not have been in a position to give him exactly what he wanted, a little compassion and empathy is fast and free to offer. It goes along way towards diffusing frustration at finding yourself up a creek without a computer when you really need one and making multiple trips to get it fixed is troublesome for you. This is another assumption on my part, but I'm guessing if he had gotten a little more of that, he might have felt differently about his experience even if the overall outcome about getting his computer fixed was the same.