I understood his point, but "often" does not mean always. I've seen grainy film enlargements that looked terrible, and did not contribute to the artistic sense of the image at all. Digital noise has a different appearance than film grain, so comparing the two as if they are the same thing is also not accurate. Saying that either one contributes artistically to an image is a very subjective claim, in SOME cases SOME people will consider them to have an artistic effect on the image, in many other cases they will not.
There are two related things going on here.
The first is that grain is part of a particular aesthetic, and that aesthetic has been arbitrarily declared "good" by some people. Digital noise, on the other hand, may be objectively less of a problem (it may obscure less of the image) but it doesn't fit that aesthetic, and so it must be "bad."
The second is that, over the years, people learned how to work with grain - but of course there were 50, 60 years or photographic knowledge going into how to make grain work for you, and not against you. Our eyes were trained to accept grain, so we see it less ... but now it's been replaced by digital noise, which we haven't trained ourselves to view in as forgiving a light.
You saw something similar happen with the transition from vinyl music to CDs. CDs have their own unique mixing challenges, although they absolutely do offer better fidelity than LPs. So early in the transition, the best way to handle mixing for CDs was not known, and often they were mixed in a way that didn't maximize their strengths. But there was also the aesthetic component: the extra compression and mastering required to make an LP work (and it often required a lot of subtle dynamic range adjustments) - and CDs didn't have that. Even though it was giving you LESS absolute fidelity, it was an aesthetic, and that aesthetic was considered good. And it took a while for people to accept that CDs actually did sound better, because they didn't have that same set of forced aesthetic choices. (I read once that something like 95% of the rock albums made from the late 60s to the mid 80s went through the hands of one of 8 or 9 "masterers" in the transition to vinyl. OF COURSE that's going to affect what you think music is "supposed to" sound like, and you'll miss it when it's gone).
"Different" is often seen as bad, even when it's objectively better, until everyone adjusts. Probably 30 years from now, kids who have spent their whole lives looking at digitally-produced images will find film grain distracting in the same way that we are annoyed by noise.