Surely the point is though, if it causes offence to enough people
to make it onto the 'banned word' list, then its just more
polite/considerate to use another one? For that particular word
there are lots of other more than acceptable ways of getting across
your feelings.
This is not a matter of censorship or freedom of speech its just a
matter of being considerate to other members and also the people
that set the board up and who's rules you agree to before joining.
There is a difference between having the right to do something and
whether you should.
In real life I swear as much as the next man, but thats with people
I know are from a similar background and way of talking I don't do
it on forums - because I don't know these people and also I don't
need to I have the vocabulary not too (although not always the
spelling skills

)
I run a busy forum and this crops up regularly. What most people
don't understand is as soon as you let some words through it
becomes harder to justify not letting other words be used and you
spend your time arguing over why one words is not allowed and
another is ok and all of this pointless arguing over words that
could easily be replaced with others takes all concerned away from
the things they should be doing, ie enjoying the hobby, improving
the site etc etc.
Those that continue to use words they know to be banned by
deliberately miss spelling them, or using 'odd' characters fo
nothing but make the problem worse. It shows a complete lack of
regard for the site owners and other forum users. Its like saying
"I know the rules, I know this word will offend some people, but
I'd sooner offend you than use a different word"
Cheers
Chris