How to keep the colors from RAW files in JPG?

Dear all,

I'm using Nikon D700 and for processing multiply images Lightroom 4, for more detail work PS CS6.

After my last shoot I ran to a problem that I can not solve for last few days, I was Google-ing  out and tried many different approaches but nothing helped.

What is it about:

I was shooting wake boarders on a nice sunny day and I wanted to increase the colors a lot so I set picture control on Vivide and incised saturation to +3, hue to +1, my shutter speed was 1/2000, F5, ISO Lo 0.7, WB: auto, I was shooting in RAW on Nikon D700.

When I opened the RAW files in ACDSee I loooooved the result but since I need to deliver JPG files and to do some cropping I import them in Lightroom and BOOM my beautiful colors despaired, I tried with Photo shop, same result, also with Nikon software, I also tried to edit directly from ACDSee but soon as I click edit button the same thing happens. I also tried to increase saturation, hue, play with colors to get the same effect but I just can not get the same colors like in raw files. Also I noticed that Lightroom first opens good looking pictures (just like I want) and than without me touching anything one by one he converts them or does something that makes colors disappear.

I know that each of this programs have certain color profile set and in photo shop I can chose between many color profiles but If I change the sRGB settings I think that when I deliver pictures to the client he will see them based on his settings + he doesn't need them for print, he needs them for internet display.

After 3 days of internet research I'm becoming bit desperate, so if any of you had similar problem or know the solution please help !!!

Thank you so much