Need help with Sony flashes

That's a never ending story... some people will never understand flash and do test shots their whole life long...

Here is a little test shot (I know! *g*) from me, distance about 1 m I would guess... 42AM behind the lamp, NEX-6 with 20AM... accidentially set at ISO800 from my last shooting... no PP at all, OOC as it is...