Please help me decide on a new camera......

You already have S95 and don't need another compact doing the same, even if lightly better, right? So what is missing? Longer zoom or ability to shoot good pictures in low light? For longer zoom in sunlight, any number of bridge cams would do. Pana FZ200 is probably the best compromise for weight and longer focal length quality. For low light there is the superb RX100, and it will replace your S95 just fine (not that much bigger, but much better).

For both you have to go to interchangeable lens cameras with different lenses. Expensive lenses for low light ability better than RX100.

There is X-S1, but it is pretty poor compromise. There are no really good bridge cameras yet, but I have a feeling that with the recent improvements in compacts, bridges will improve radically too pretty soon. Before buying a bridge, I would wait for a RX10 or X-S2 or whatever they will be called.