Color management when printing in PS

I purchased Epson Artisan 730 and Ultra Premium Luster if it matters.

I also use a calibrated monitor with Spyder3.

When I print my photo, it always comes darker than my calibrated screen. I chose proper paper and no fixing of any kind in printer settings.

I searched this forum and there were many similar threads already and the most common suggestion was to let Photoshop handle color, not the printer.

But even If I choose it, there are so many possible combinations of settings.

What should I choose in Printer Profile? Color space of my document such as "EPSON sRGB"? or the paper type like "Premium Luster"? And it even has a profile called "Spyder3Express", the one I have used.

Also there are other settings too: Rendering Intent and Black Point Compensation.

Could anyone help me please?