I was in that...which one mode several months back and finally went with a suggestion from an old friend who has enough money to buy whatever he wants, yet picked one I thought dollar-wise sounded too good to be true. Turns out, it's not only great, it's a great money value as well. Have a look at the OBEN BA-1. (My Monfrotto rarely leaves the equipment closet these days.)
Ichi go, Ichi e--We have this moment, it is everything.